TIPS TO LIVE WITH RELATIVES

Living with other people are quite different with parents in which we can ask our parents give all we want and we can spoil no insulting and no insisting to us. Neither we live with talk-active mom but we still have enough staff for our necessary but with other people we can do like before therefore we must be assimilating our condition with before condition so we can live peacefully with our relatives.

Living or visiting people’s house only three days or a week we can feel the joy but the rest we must feel different one. There are some factors cause like it such as: the truth nature emerges, the financial condition, family condition. In addition we must understand to the condition and we don’t need to force ourselves as the previous condition.

There is a story about a young man who lives with his relative, his uncle the truth. He lives there not from his want but from his uncle’s want his uncle asks him to continue his study and lives to his house. At the first time his living is ok like the first time promise from his uncle house. consciously at the six first month he got everything that is promised by his uncle’s appointment but later all facilities he uses slowly being taken at first his used motor cycle then his eating portion afterwards the stereo types he commonly uses no more. It is obviously to make him damned and he tries to ask the attitude but he get anger from his uncle many reason and anger he gets. But the anger is not sensible and not the same the condition.

Here are some tips if you want to live with your relatives.

1. You must think maturely before you live with your relatives.

Living with relative is not the same with our parents. So we must thank before we decide to live with our family. Before all things have happened and you regret later. In addition you must discuss with your parents and you must follow what your parents tell to you because they know everything yourselves.

2. Don’t be excessive attitude

After you think the consequences you want to live with your relatives you must position yourselves not like you live with your parents all the new house you follow. And you must be hard working and tight your discipline then before.


3. You must yield

It’s better you yield then you beat. If your relatives have some children you must yield and don’t make a squirrel to the child unless you are reported not truth to their parents and yourselves will get angry.

4. Do What you can do

Do everything household works without comment and you must make the host like with you. And you must make the house clean and tidy.

5. Do sincerely

You must do your work sincerely without any reward and you hope God reward it better.

6. You must be flexible

It means that you must socialize with the relatives family don’t keep yourselves in the bedroom or something else because of keeping your regret feeling. You consider all things like you live with your parents.

7. If you can’t stand you must move

If you can’t stand you must move to find new lathe in order your independent not to be conquered and you must find yourselves without being ordered by people. And moving is better for you if your selves are not good anymore such as your meals not good, you are got angry often time and you are done like a child you must move. But you live you have to spend more money and cost for your live and for your loathe cost and you have to manage your time when you study or work and to fulfill your cost a month.


Note: Living with parents are better even your mother is pussy but you have your independent then living with people you cannot manage your esteem.